So here's an update to this project. I pulled the transmission and removed the flex plate. I grounded off the ring gear on the flex plate flipped it and re welded it back on and also took my angle grinder and notched the leading edge of the tooth like the factory did. Put it back in and the problem still remained. (The grinding and not fully engaging of the starter to the ring gear) So once again I took it all apart, ground some more on the spots where the starter made hit marks, and put it back together. Just as you would guess it still was making the same sound. After a few kind works and some kicking of my tools, I regrouped drank a beer and thought about it some more. I ended up pulling just the starter and after looking at the front leading edge of the pinion gear i found it to be slightly mushroomed. I took a Dremel tool and ground a sharper front edge to the gear teeth. After re installing the starter low and behold it worked! So long story short, when in doubt drink a beer and save yourself hours of frustration....