Well in either case, older cars are having a tough time getting the oil they need. A lot of talk of this I've seen with older muscle car people. A lot of them are either buying diesel/heavy duty oil, or buying ZDDP in a can. I've not tried the can stuff before. The problem running diesel oil though is it attacks your cat. So if you live where I do, you won't care what happens to the cat. If you live in Cali, ya don't do it.
Yes and no. A lot of it depends on your millage and age. My car ran fine with it, but I switched because its so damn expensive. $50 plus per oil change is outrages. I'm also hearing that synthetic oil attacks your seals. It will make them "shrink" and cause oil leaks. Never seen proof of this though.
Another factor is also a Big issue. What we think is normal driving: (going to and from the store, going to work, picking up the kids, etc) is severe driving. Driving dusty roads and climate are also factors. So choosing the oil You think that best suites your driving style would be something to think about. Hwy driving is what I believe to be the best conditions.